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Monday Dec 23, 2019
#59 Oscar Trimboli on Deep Listening
Monday Dec 23, 2019
Monday Dec 23, 2019
Most of us think we are above-average listeners, but in truth, we all could be better. In this episode, listening expert Oscar Trimboli tells us why Deep Listening is a game-changing skill, and how listening can change individuals and cultures.
SHOW NOTES
* How a difficult international meeting led Oscar to become an expert on listening
* Why aren't we taught how to listen?
* Everyone thinks they are a good listener
* Most of us listen in black and white
* The biggest challenge we have with listening
* The 125/400 Rule
* We are programmed to be distracted
* The most important person you need to listen to is yourself
* Three tips for Level 1 Listening
* Your ability to be present doubles when you turn your electronic devices off
* The link between hydration and listening
* The deeper you breathe, the deeper you listen
* Listen carefully for what's not said
* The 125/900 Rule
* You have an 11% chance that what you are saying is what you are thinking
* Don't assume that the first thing someone says is really what they mean
* Three phrases to get to the heart of the matter
* The danger of only listening to those who have a strong opinion
* Ask the Eileens of the world
* Are you listening to all of the opinions in the room?
* How deep listening can change a "disaster movie" culture
You can connect with Oscar and get free listening tips at www.listeningmyths.com
You can connect with Brian at www.brianrollo.com
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